Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Six Figure Salary for Being a Mom

Wouldn't it be nice to be compensated for raising healthy, productive children which in and of itself is an invaluable contribution to society! Came upon this interesting tidbit today from salary.com. They do an annual market valuation of a mother's work that asks how much a mother would be paid if she did all of these things we do in the world of real paychecks.

They surveyed 400 stay-at-home and working mothers and broke it out into 10 major categories of work: Housekeeper, Cook, Day Care Center Teacher, Laundry Machine Operator, CEO, Facility Manager, Van Driver, Psychologist, Computer Operator and Janitor. Then they determined the competitive market value that an employer would pay for a blend of those 10 jobs seven days a week and came up with a salary on the high end of $132,121 a year! (that was for the the stay-at-home mothers who clocked in a whopping 92 hours a week performing those jobs...!) WOW. The actual salary range was from $85k - $134k depending on where you live and how many hours you work outside the home. Working mothers reported working an average of 44 hours a week at their jobs away from home.

If you want to find out how much a mother might get paid in different parts of the country, go to the Mom Salard Wizard.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Pregnancy and Your Plumbing Problems

Ugh...Pregnancy and dreaded constipation. At 6 1/2 months I am just about at my wits end over this "plumbing problem". I know this is an uncomfortable topic but, hey, we all deal with stuff like this and by the end of pregnancy I think we all pretty much have no pride left anyway. Constipation is just another side effect of pregnancy for some of us and I know I find comfort in knowing a little more about the "situation".


Here are a few reasons for constipation during pregnancy.
The number one reason-as sited by MOST doctors and books, is usually due to the higher levels of hormones such as progesterone which slows down intestinal function. And- gross fact- the longer the stool sits in the large intestine, the harder and drier it gets.
2. Your prenatals can stop you up. Iron is a good reason to wish you could drink Draino.
3. As your uterus grows it can press on the bowels slowing down the passage of the stools (among other things...)
4. Medications. I am taking Zofran (anti-vomit med) which is incredibly constipating. I am sure there are plenty of other medications that have this side effect.. Talk to your OB about it.

Here are some ways of dealing...
1. Drink LOTS of fluids. One can drown the opponent with liquids. Drinking fluids- especially water, veggie and fruit juices, will help move things along. Then there is always prune juice. Yuck.
2. Exercise- an active body encourages active bowels. Just make sure that the activity is suited to and safe for your pregnancy.
3. Increase your fiber intake. Fresh fruit, vegetables, whole grains, legumes and dried fruits are all great choices. Avoid refined foods (basically anything white- white bread, white rice, etc)
4. Over the counter remedies- Metamucil, which now comes in a capsule form...hooray, is safe. Milk of Magnesia can also help. DO NOT take stimulant laxatives-according to the American Pregnancy Association they can make you have uterine contractions . As with any medication- it is always best to discuss these things with your OB first though....
4.There are days when my desire to pass something, anything is higher then my desire not to vomit..So I occasionally take a day off from my meds and it actually really helps even though I feel nauseous and icky.

And a little end note....I was feeling so desperate at one point that I asked my doctor if I could get a colonic. This is not an option during preganacy as it can cause contractions. Bummer.